“And if you faithfully obey the voice of the Lord your God, being careful to do all his commandments that I command you today, the Lord your God will set you high above all the nations of the earth. And all these blessings shall come upon you and overtake you, if you obey the voice of the Lord your God. Blessed shall you be in the city, and blessed shall you be in the field. Blessed shall be the fruit of your womb and the fruit of your ground and the fruit of your cattle, the increase of your herds and the young of your flock. Blessed shall be your basket and your kneading bowl. …
Boundaries and Grandchildren……….. these 2 words shouldn’t even be used in the same sentence. Grandchildren are our blessings for allowing our kids to become adults. I hate to say it but sometimes, I felt that way. Child rearing was hard, good, but hard. Grandparent-hood is nothing short of spectacular! I spend as much time with them as possible. Loving, laughing, playing and running out of steam. And there has been times when I’ve had to explain to them how it works at “Lollie & Pops” house but even still nothing short of spectacular. Until today! My oldest is learning that she loves playing at Lollie and Pops house but she also loves being with her friends. Today she had to choose and regretfully the choice was painful for her. I explained to her that if she made the choice to go home, her friends may not be home or they may not be able to play, but she wanted to go, and that was fine, until we got to her house and she realized they were not home. She immediately decided she wanted to come back with me. Now it was my turn to make a choice, could I say, OK or let her deal with the choice that she made. With many tears, hers and mine, I let her suffer the pain of a choice that didn’t turn out as well as she expected. Yes, this was a minor deal and I could have just let it blow by and not took the opportunity to let her suffer little so that hopefully, eventually, she won’t have to suffer big.
We all have made those choices………… you know, the ones we wish we hadn’t.
For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it?
As a child, our choices are small and usually so are the sufferings but as we grow older these things no longer are small. Our choices effect every corner of our lives, our relationships, our finances, our health, our joy, our pain and our eternity. An emphasis on “eternity”. I didn’t make all the right choices when I was growing up and I certainly have not as I’ve become an adult. But I’ve realized that I have helper, a guide to walk with me through those choices, all I have to do is listen and choose to follow.
“And if you faithfully obey the voice of the Lord your God, being careful to do all his commandments that I command you today, the Lord your God will set you high above all the nations of the earth. And all these blessings shall come upon you and overtake you, if you obey the voice of the Lord your God.
I have 5 more chances to walk through life with the greatest blessings I’ve received. I’m being intentional with my love for them. Hoping that what I’ve learned about having good boundaries and learning from my own suffering, I can help guide them in their choices, letting a small suffering be a stepping stone to having less big sufferings.
We, you and I, still have that choice to make daily. Are we going to faithfully obey the voice of the Lord our God?
Lord, help me be courageous and loving all at the same time. All the while, leaning on the Holy Spirit’s guidance, Jesus’s forgiveness and Your Strength. Amen!